This will be an article series on “How to leave UBF for Good”. It is no doubt a big question that all if not most of you have pondered about. So here not only will the question be answered but also how to execute the departure from UBF as well.
Like my friend C.W. was telling me through a conversation that “How to leave to leave UBF for Good” is “a multi-faceted question”. Indeed I agree with him for anyone who has been in UBF has to fundamentally face their own difficult whether they have been there for decades or just months & whether they were there solo, with family members, or come to have an arranged family.
The fundamental structure of the series will be like this (part of it was suggested by C.W:
- Psychological issues/triggers (ex: PTSD)
- Abuse (spiritual, mental, and physical)
- Marriage (UBF process)
- Family (arranged, or biological)
- Children (from arranged families, those who have kids before UBF, 2nd gen UBF a.k.a chapter director kids)
- Connections(Pre-UBF, anti-UBF)
- Christian Theology
- Support Groups
- Deprogramming process
- spiritual recovery/healing
There will also be other articles in between the series by me or other authors/users. So the ones that are part of this series will be distinguishable by the title “How to leave UBF for good________” with the blank being whatever topic that is being covered in that article. The target audience is current members, however, the series is helpful to ex-members as well.
Final note: I would like to thank my support group a.k.a the ex-members of the chapter I used to go to for their support and love. I would like to also thank Wikigoat, C.W., J.S., C.Z, and others for their support and love as well. I would like to also thank MJ Peace and Ben for bringing up the concern regarding this site being figuratively open to current members as well for they gave me the thought to be considerate of current members as well as ex-members.
Here is a list complication of the series thus far if you have missed it: